I am posting this for my friend, she posted the same question on answerology so i offered to post it on here as well! So here it goes:

I’m not sure what to do…my boyfriend and I were talking and he is very firm on not wanting any more children. He already has 2 girls with his ex-wife. I’m alittle younger than him and have no children. I feel if I’m going to think about being him for the long haul I do want children, of course after marriage. We are doing really great besides that issue. I really don’t want to leave him because of that. We’ve been together for about a year now. What do you suggest? I don’t want to pressure him if he really doesn’t want to. And it’s not like I want a baby now…just a few years from now once hings settle down. Any words of advice would help! Thank you