You cannot expect them to think the same way as you.

Like, some parents teach their children homosexuality is wrong.
Some teach their children that MARRIAGE is wrong.

You can’t honestly expect to pass such values to children. I am a firm believer in free will and if my future children want to believe in something I don’t, I don’t find it my right to tell them it’s wrong. I can express my opinion, but doesn’t mean I am correct.

Your life in the present moment is in between the past and the future. So what has preceded can be rectified by tawbah (repentance), nadam (regret) and istighfar (seeking Allaah’s forgiveness). And this is something that will neither tire you, nor cause you to toil as you would with strenuous labour. Rather it is an action of the heart. Then as regards the future (then it can be corrected) by withholding yourself from sins. And this abandonment is merely the leaving of something and to be at ease from it. This also is not action of the limbs, which requires you to strive and toil. Rather this is a firm resolve and intention of the heart – which will give rest to your body, heart and thoughts. So as for what has preceded, then you rectify it with repentance. And as for the future – then you rectify it with firm resolve and intention. Neither of these involves any hardship or exertion of the limbs. But then your attention must be directed to your life in the present – the time between two times. If you waste it, then you have wasted the opportunity to be of the fortunate and saved ones. If you look after it, having rectified the two times – what is before and after it, as we have said – then you will be successful and achieve rest, delight and ever-lasting bliss. However, looking after it is harder than that which comes before and after it, since guarding it involves keeping to that which is most befitting and beneficial for your soul, and that which will bring it success and well-being.
By The Great Imam Ibn ul Qayyim al Jawziyyah
Rahimullah
Blue: There is a reason to why I said “muslims”.
Mind ur own bizniz.
what is an honorary/nominal Muslim?
No you where a muslim blessed enough to have studied the Qur’aan at a young age but never made full use of it. Now you are an adult who enjoys ridiculing the muslims, their Book and Thier Prophet(saw). But no you are not harming us just your own soul.

I am very much weak in the programming sector, so I am keen to do job in Saudi Arabia after i complete my M.S in Electricals. But i am totally confused to choose the specialization so that i should get a good pay in a respected firm. The specialization which i choose should never get descended.

My son is turning 18 soon and has recently begun dating. However his first girlfriend has very small breasts, probably an A-cup. Now god bless his heart, he loves her ever so much, but I’d like to set a firm precedent to avoid future heartbreak.

I wouldn’t want him to be ridiculed by his friends and classmates for ‘going out with a flatty’ as I would have been back in my younger years. Unendowed females are also generally emotionally unstable due to low self-esteem (I don’t want a teenage drama queen on my son’s hands!)

My biggest worry is that many years down the line, their female children would be ‘flat chicks’ as well. I’d like my son to be a spittin’ image of his old man, and to help him avoid some obvious mistakes.

Should I forbid him from dating her or let him figure it out for himself over time?

Its been one and a half year I had been employed as an Account assistant in a partnership firm. I am happy and satisfied with my job routine, atmosphere is good and pay scale is also good. Only I am less disappointed is there is no future benefits i.e. I only draw a basic salary. I had heard about job paper work done at home, after all it is a part time job. Can anyone tell me if working in part time jobs will I get future benefits?

China has announced their intention to build a Lunar base in the near future. The USA has no firm plans for doing so, yet objects to the miltiarization of space. I refer to this in the aspect of Geo-politics.

I’m doing a little research on accounting & consulting fees. I work for a nationwide niche firm that has about 1,500 accounting clients (including tax prep) averaging about 700-800K per year in operating revenue. I believe we are undercharging for our services. Our average accounting fees are about 1% of revenue or 7-8K per year on an average client. We do perform some other services like collections, payroll, financial planning, etc. on some clients raising the total amount to 1.2-1.3%. Do those seem like appropriate percentages? I’m curious what type of benchmarks others have in their accounting and tax businesses or if anyone knows of a good source of information for this type of thing. Any input would be much appreciated as I am looking to possibly buy this business in the future.

plz help me to secure my future, i am ashutosh , i am doing accounting job in a firm & also doing Industrial Accounting training from ICA. but i am looking no scope in this line last 2 or 3 year i am doing nothing i am b-com gra. after B-com i am doing MBA but i am not clear all exm & have two year back, so i left the MBA. but now day i feel so badly to remember that time i don’t know what i am doing ? so plz help me what i do

I want to invest in my child’s future for college. Is the 529 Savings plan an investment of choice? Where do i start, and how should i decide what company/financial firm should i start with? Our Economy is in a recession, is this a good time? I want to contribute about $50-$100 monthly.